We’re obsessed with stuff. We fill our homes with things we’ve collected, and when there’s no more room we rent storage lockers to house our stuff. I’ve been there, too. For at least a year I paid $200 a month for a storage locker. When I look back at that time, I ask myself: What was I thinking? It’s just a few years later and I have none of the things that I paid so much money to hold on to! Why didn’t I just let go of it all in the first place, instead of paying at least $2400 to keep a bunch of stuff in a big, dark box?
I’m not the only one who has been through this experience. It’s made me curious to know, what is the meaning of clutter? And why can’t we let go of all this stuff!?
Click for writing prompts to help you get to the bottom of your clutter.
Promises are a big deal. Really. Can you imagine what society would be like without promises? We rely on others to do as they assure us that they will. How would human relationships, partnerships, and friendships function without promises?
People have different ideas of what a promise is – what it means to promise, how a promise occurs, and what consequences to expect or dole out in response to a broken promise. The foggy understanding of promises adds tension to relationships. Improving your understanding of promises has the potential to transform and benefit your interpersonal relationships. Let’s figure this out! Click to read more.
“He was confused. He had never asked her to trust him or said anything to make her believe he was worth her trust. And she knew his past – so what did she expect? She had trusted him – to do what, exactly?”
Do you know what it means to trust someone? What about trusting yourself? Answer quickly, before philosophy gets in the way. You think you know, until you realize that you do not know at all what it means to trust and be trusted.
Click to visit this week’s post to learn about trust.
Plus, journal questions to help you understand how and why you trust!
Because of rising housing costs and scarcity, renters are forced to make decisions based on criteria such as square footage and utility instead of artistic design and psychological effects. Buyers are apt to make decisions based on price speculation – a property that increases in value is the smart buy. However, despite not being at the forefront of importance, the architecture of the buildings we inhabit matters to us for its subtle effects on daily life.
Find out about how architecture transcends physical reality (!) and journal questions to reflect on your own home.